Archive for March, 2007

Mar 31 2007

Really Stupid Things The Elms Boys Argue About #2

In our ongoing series of RSTTEBAA (Really Stupid Things The Elms Boys Argue About – you can read the initial installment here) I give you this offering.

In preparation for a visit from my in-laws this weekend, I asked the boys to clean the upstairs bathrooms (theirs and our guest room) while I vacuumed the stairs. An argument ensued over who got to clean their bathroom because…get this…it was the dirtier bathroom. I kid you not.

We finally realized that the downstairs powder room was dirty enough to be an ok second choice. So Jason cleaned the toliet upstairs and the mirror and sink downstairs. Kyle got to clean the toliet downstairs and the mirror and sink upstairs.

I guess that this is what happens when you do not make kids clean bathrooms on a regular basis? We have a cleaning lady that cleans the downstairs (which includes the master bedroom and bath) so that leaves the boys rooms, guest room and the two bathrooms upstairs. The boys bathroom basically gets cleaned whenever I finally realize that it really needs it. Jeff recently got some kind of toliet wand that grips a cleaning pad that both boys think is really cool…go figure.

Now, please do not get the idea that my kids are neat-niks. Believe me, they are not. Just ask them to clean their room or pick up the family room and they groan with the best of them. But for some reason, for this period in their lives, they think that cleaning the bathroom is neat.

And I say that is fine with me…argue away!

~Stephanie

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Mar 29 2007

Another benefit of homeschooling

I get to miss rush hour traffic! Twice in the past week I had to be out on Northern Virginia traffic during rush hour. I swear, I really had forgotten how bad it can be!

Of course, I guess that you don’t have to be a homeschooler to get this benefit, but it is one of the side benefits. I also love being able to shop/run errands during the day rather then in the evenings or on weekends. I have actually gotten a bit spoiled in this regard. I hate crowds and lines!

~Stephanie

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Mar 25 2007

Politics Should Not Affect What and How Our Kids Learn (Part 2)

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OK, so it took me a little while to finally add to my previous post on Politics and Kids Learning but I knew that I would find the inspiration sometime.

In Mother Readers’ Thoughtful Thursday post (yes, I am a couple of days behind my reading!) she not only had a link to a great perspective on NCLB but also this very interesting Washington Post article that talks about the politics of NCLB and how the rhetoric behind No Child Left Behind is actually hindering the adoption of realistic goals…after all how can a politician admit/vote for something that says that some kids will be left behind? But how realistic is it, really, that “all students tested in reading and math will reach grade level by 2014″?

“There is a zero percent chance that we will ever reach a 100 percent target,” said Robert L. Linn, co-director of the National Center for Research on Evaluation, Standards and Student Testing at UCLA. “But because the title of the law is so rhetorically brilliant, politicians are afraid to change this completely unrealistic standard. They don’t want to be accused of leaving some children behind.”

On the surface, it seems to makes sense that we should be trying for a “100% target”. After all kids deserve that, don’t they? However, we do not live in a perfect world. Some kids, due to a variety of factors, are not going to be able to get to grade level. That is because children are not robots…it is not just a matter of giving them instruction and they learn. Different kids learn at different levels. So what is the harm in having 100% as the goal? The harm is that it is impossible, yet schools are going to be penalized if they do not meet that goal. Sounds liking a loosing situation to be in.

 But critics face an uphill challenge because of the rhetorical power of the argument for a universal proficiency target and a deadline. Anything less, advocates say, will hurt children, especially society’s most vulnerable: poor and minority students.

“We need to stay the course,” U.S. Deputy Education Secretary Raymond Simon said. “The mission is doable, and we don’t need to back off that right now.”

Hmmm…seems as if we have heard this one before from this administration. For some reason the Bush administration seems to think that despite evidence to the contrary, they can just will things to happen. It does not matter if evidence, experts and the current track record say that it is not doable. They know better of course.

Sen. Lamar Alexander (R-Tenn.), a former U.S. education secretary and supporter of the law, said Americans don’t want politicians to lower standards.

“Are we going to rewrite the Declaration of Independence and say only 85 percent of men are created equal?” Alexander asked. “Most of our politics in America is about the disappointment of not meeting the high goals we set for ourselves.”

Well, when you put it like that…please! This is feel good politics at its worst. This type of rhetoric sounds great. Who could not get behind something like this? The problem is that it is not doable! No one is saying not to try to help all kids or that you should give up on any kid, just that it is not realistic to penalize schools for not having a 100% success rate. There are too many variable for which they can not control.

But testing experts say there are vast academic differences among children of the same racial or socioeconomic background. Countries with far less racial diversity than the United States still find wide variations in student performance. Even in relatively homogenous Singapore, for example, a world leader in science and math tests, a quarter of the students tested are not proficient in math, and 49 percent fall short in science.

Gasp! No! You mean kids are not robots? You mean that you can not just pour the knowledge in and have it take? I also wonder what this emphasis means for kids for which math is not their forte? What about the kids who are wonderfully talented in areas outside of math and science? What message are they getting in school? If you always focus on a child’s weak area, what kind of effect does that have on them?

Although no major school system is known to have reached 100 percent proficiency, Education Department officials pointed to individual schools across the country that have reached the standard as evidence that it is possible

The only school they cited in the Washington region as having met that mark was the Thomas Jefferson High School for Science and Technology in Fairfax County, a regional school with selective admissions. Principal Evan M. Glazer said his school, which has an elite reputation, was hardly a representative example. On whether the nation can replicate that success, Glazer said: “I don’t think it’s very realistic.”

TJS&T is actually right down the road from where I live. It is a state magnet honors school. There is an extremely competitive selection process. Most kids don’t get in. This is the cream of the crop of Virginia students. I would actually worry if this school did not achieve 100% proficiency! To hold this school up and say of course it can be done is extremely disingenuous.

Fairfax County School Superintendent Jack D. Dale said it was “absurd” to expect total proficiency, especially when federal officials require immigrant children who have been in U.S. schools for little more than a year to meet the standard. His 164,000-student system, the largest in the Washington region, is sparring with the Education Department over the immigrant testing rule.

Dale and other critics of the law have called for No Child Left Behind to measure the growth of students from year to year instead of expecting them to meet fixed benchmarks. But Dale said he understood why federal officials and lawmakers take a different view.

“How can you publicly state it’s okay to have some children not meet standards?” Dale said. “Politically, you’re committing suicide if you say it.”

Dr. Dale (who is the superintendent of my county and pretty much leaves us homeschoolers alone) makes a very good point and one that makes sense. Instead of holding all kids up to the same arbitrary level of “achievement”, why not look at personal growth? Has the child made progress? Looking at a child’s progress would be a much better standard. But that is also harder to measure. And harder to collect statistics on and harder to trumpet in headlines.

In Virginia, homeschoolers do need to provide “proof of progress” at the end of the year, either through the use of a standardized test (of the parents choosing) or an evaluation (again, using an evaluator of the parents choosing). For the most part this means showing that the child is at “grade level”. But it is nice to know that if needed, the standard is progress. This allows us to evaluate our child based on their individual needs and individual growth.

Some experts predict that states will weaken their definition of proficiency to make it appear that all students are on track. The law requires students to meet “challenging academic standards” but allows each state to define proficiency on its own terms and design its own tests.

Ahhh. And herein lies the rub. By setting impossible standards, the administration is pretty much forcing schools to do just this. And I remember reading an article (will have to see if I can find it again) that talks about how most of the focus is on getting the borderline kids above the border (because it helps the schools stats) and actually results in the extremely poor performers getting less help because there is no chance that their scores would ever be high enough so why bother. (And yes, I know that this is a generalization and that there are many teachers out their doing their best for these very at-risk children. The point that I am making is that the way that the system is set up actually provides very little incentive for helping these extremely underperforming kids who need the help the most.)

NCLB and all the encompassing problems is one reason that I have major issues with the federal government being involved in education. It is hard enough for an individual school to come up with ways to help their individual children. Trying to set federal standards for all children just seems ridiculous to me.

Education should be a very personal and individual thing because all children are individual and have different needs and learning styles. The more you try to standardize it, the more children are going to “not fit”. I also have major problems with the emphasis on testing as the main evaluation method. I have seen during our annual testing we do to satisfy the state’s “evidence of progress” requirement (the only time we test) how little the test actually reflects what my kids know.

NCLB seems to forget that children have their own timetables and strengths. Not all children are going to know how to read at 6 or have their times tables memorized at 9. No matter how much “schooling” they get. Some kids just aren’t ready. What does it matter if a child doesn’t read until age 8 or 9 or has does not have their multiplication facts down cold until 11 or 12?

NCLB (and the Virginia SOLs) is another reason that I am glad that I am homeschooling. I have the freedom to let my kids develop on their own timetable. I can focus on their strengths while working on their weaknesses. My children have the freedom to learn in  a way that works for them without worrying about the federal governement and their “standards”.

~Stephanie

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Mar 24 2007

Tired of getting forwarded emails?

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Especially ones that promise good luck or $100 if you don’t “break the link”? Try sending this back as a reply.

Thanks to my Mom for the link.

~Stephanie

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Mar 20 2007

Pop vs. Soda

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I have spent way too much time poking around this website tonight: Pop vs Soda. Not sure why, but I am finding it fascinating. You can get the stats based on your state and even your county as well.

I am a soda girl (and for the record I prefer Pepsi, although I rarely drink soda any more). Yet most of my relatives from New Jersey including my grandmother all called it pop.

Reminds me of the test I took a little while ago to see What Kind of American English I spoke.

Can you tell I am procrastinating about actually getting some things done? One thing that is great about the internet…you can always find ways to distract yourself from what you are supposed to be doing!

~Stephanie

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Mar 19 2007

Looking for something to read?

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Check out the really neat, fun new tool, Literature Map. You type in the name of a favorite author and a “cloud” of related/similar authors appears. The closer the name is to the chosen author, the more likely you will enjoy them. You can then click on a new author and start following the trail.

Neat idea and after playing around a little bit, it definitely seems to be fairly accurate. Looks like I will have to poke around a bit and see who else I can find.

Thanks to Melissa on the UUHomeschooling email list for the link.

~Stephanie

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Mar 17 2007

Greed

Nope, not the “deadly sin” greed. The dice game Greed! Julie on the Living Math email list (which is an awesome resource for teaching math) forwarded this link to Greed and the boys and I have been having fun playing.

In a nutshell, you have 10 dice. You roll the dice and see what you score. You then have the option to roll again and try to score additional points…the risk however is that if you do not score, then you loose all your points for that turn. So you need to decide if you are going to keep the points you gained on that round or risk them all.

The boys have decided that it is basically “Deal or No Deal” with dice. Funny how much they got a kick out of that aspect of it.

Just thought that I would pass on a fun way to get familiar with how probability works. And just an all around fun game too. Oh and I have to gloat as well that I won the game today! So there!
~Stephanie

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Mar 13 2007

Yes, another Ellie Update…

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I’m back! I promise to start writing about homeschooling soon…but just a few quick updates on Ellie. And more pictures! We had her groomed and they had to cut her really short (that is what happens when you don’t brush her for a week!) She looks like a totally different dog!

Ellie Before:

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Don’t you love those snow boots! I had to defrost her in the sink to get the snow off…)

 

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A boy and his fluffy dog…

 

And Ellie after:

 

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There really is a dog under there…

 

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You can see her eyes!

 

Kyle actually does not like the short hair Ellie, so I think that we will try to keep her a bit longer (now that we know what kind of brush to use!).

 

Her pooping issues continue…turns out that she has giardia (the initial in-house analysis came back negative for parasites, but when they sent it out, it came back positive). So she is on a different round of medication and still on her chicken and rice diet. Hopefully this will do it. Keep your fingers crossed.

 

On the plus side, the boys have learned a lot about protozoans and flagellates and amoebas etc. The internet is a wonderful thing.

 

On the negative side, we had to postpone the dog training classes because she is contagious. And we have no idea what we are doing! So I am trying to do some reading and hoping that we muddle through.

 

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How could you not love this face?

~Stephanie

 

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Mar 09 2007

See you after the weekend…

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I will be out of town at a friend’s house (where there is only dial up – egads!) so I am not sure how much online time I will have. The boys and Jeff are going to have a great “boys weekend and I will see you on Monday!

~Stephanie

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Mar 07 2007

If you get an unhousebroken dog…

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I highly suggest that you not get one in winter!

Still working on getting into a routine here and I have to say that the weather is not helping. First a snowstorm, then 2 days of rain and mud and now after a beautiful weekend, freezing temps. And more snow expected tomorrow. Ah well. So it goes.

Some quick updates…

Ellie is overall adjusting well…still trying to figure out the sleeping thing and housebreaking thing. She ended up having some digestive track issues (probably due to stress and switching food (her owner never told me what brand of food they used)) so I cook her chicken and rice (those that know me will get a kick out of the fact that I am cooking for my dog!) and she is on medication to help with the inflammation. Hopefully she will be feeling better soon.

The cats and Ellie are coming to an agreement and they have been taking back the rest of the house. The first few days, they kept themselves pretty scarce. But now they can be in the same room without a problem and Ellie is learning not to chase them. Lapis has swatted her once and is starting to get really brave. They actually came nose to nose this afternoon.

Ellie is a real cutie…she has a tendency to prance especially when she runs and she is an incredible jumper. She likes to eat ice cubes. She has tons of energy and can run like the dickens outside, but she is also fairly calm inside. She loves to play monkey in the middle with the boys with her soft frisbee.

We went to our first obedience class…should be interesting as Ellie is not really big on treats…at least none that we have found yet. The boys are looking forward to it.

I will say that I am much more sleep deprived then I have been in awhile. Hopefully we will get adjusted to things soon!

~Stephanie

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